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Great Weather – Great Health for Seniors

April 30, 2018

Spring has sprung here at The Saybrook at Haddam with warm weather and the appearance of countless buds and flowers.  It is a welcomed time of the year that lifts our spirits and improves moods – and perhaps even affects our health.   While residents and staff are all enjoying this new season, we thought it was interesting that experts have found a real, provable connection between weather and health.  We wanted to share some advice to help seniors avoid turning a nice day into an uncomfortable one.

Scientists do believe that some folks coping with arthritis pain may really “predict” bad weather when they have flare-ups. To minimize this, seniors are encouraged to hydrate sufficiently, dress warmly, supplement with Vitamin D and fish oil, soak in warm baths, and maintain a healthy diet.  We have hydration stations throughout The Saybrook at Haddam, so residents can readily take a rest and have a drink.  We also serve plenty of fresh fruits, vegetables and other healthy foods that help manage many different conditions, including arthritis.

Others who suffer from migraines may notice increased discomfort when there is a drop in barometric pressure (before a storm) or an increase in seasonal allergies.  They are encouraged to take migraine medicine at the first sign of a headache – and perhaps even tap into today’s technology by connecting filtered earplugs with an app that sends an alert whenever there’s a drop in barometric pressure.

More time outdoors in the nice weather may lead to an increase in the chance of a fall from uneven pavement, sticks or debris on pathways, or slick walkways from misty rain.  Wearing sturdy shoes with good traction is essential, as is making sure walkways are clear.  We appreciate the hard work of our maintenance and grounds keeping team that keeps our entire community in such great (and safe) shape.

When it’s hot outside, some seniors may be at risk of heatstroke, which happens when the heart strains to produce sweat needed to cool the body.  So, people with heart conditions should be extra cautious.  Additionally, on humid days, people with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) or other lung diseases may notice an increase in symptoms such as shortness of breath, respiratory infections or wheezing.

Of course, spring is notorious for those bothered by asthma and allergies.  Tree and grass pollen, high humidity, high winds, cold temperatures and other sudden weather changes can also worsen symptoms. In severe cases, seniors are encouraged to work with an allergist to identify triggers and develop a customized treatment plan. Residents can always start by talking with the wellness team at The Saybrook at Haddam.

In essence, paying attention to your body and health all year long will help you manage illness, pain or allergies anytime of the year – so you can really enjoy those great weather days.  At The Saybrook at Haddam, we do all we can to support your wellness goals and keep you healthy to do just that.  To us, it’s all part of gracious retirement living!

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Seniors and Happiness

January 15, 2018

The dictionary tells us that “happiness” is a state of well-being and contentment, and the Declaration of Independence tells us that the “pursuit of happiness” is one of our basic rights.  But, what is happiness exactly?  How do people – including senior citizens – achieve a life of happiness?  It is interesting that the concept means so many different things to different people at various stages of  their lives. At The Saybrook at Haddam, we spend a great deal of time thinking about residents’ happiness because, more than anything, families want to know that their mom or dad, grandparent or other relative will be happy living here.Recently, the New York Times published an article that created a direct link between seniors and happiness.  The writer followed a group of seniors for several years, noting their daily activities, attitudes, and physical abilities. Over time, he realized these seniors “focused not on their declining abilities but on things that they could still do and that they found rewarding.”

In another article, Psychology Today magazine states, regardless of age, “much of happiness is under personal control. Regularly indulging in small pleasures (such as warm baths!), getting absorbed in challenging activities, setting and meeting goals, maintaining close social ties, and finding purpose beyond oneself are all actions that increase life satisfaction.”

This all is music to our ears! In our effort to create a happy community, our activities team works tirelessly to develop a well-rounded selection of social, recreational, physical, cultural and educational opportunities that appeal to residents (and their guests).  This means we have regular events, activities, guests and performers at our community – and that we travel around our region to take advantage of local concert halls, museums, state parks, garden centers, libraries, shops, and restaurants.  We often welcome ideas from residents to introduce new activities or go places that interest them.  This involvement is important and rewarding to seniors.

We also use daily meals as an opportunity to promote happiness.  Residents never dine alone, and they have many choices where they eat: in our beautiful circular main dining room, our elegant private dining rooms, our courtyard, the country kitchen, or in Safe Harbor’s family-style dining room. Residents and guests tell us our meals are delicious, and we know they are also nutritious, a little adventurous, and full of seasonal favorites. Good food goes a long way towards happiness!

One of the best parts of our community is how “tuned in” we each become with one another.  We can easily recognize when residents are not their usual selves (not “happy”) and we can tell when residents may not be feeling their best, physically or emotionally.  While we are careful to respect privacy, we always are touched when we see neighbors reaching out to neighbors, lending a hand and being of service to each other.  These are the intangible parts of happiness that are always so important to pursue.

The New York Times suggests spending time with seniors will change your perspective and increase your own level of happiness.  Looking around at the smiling faces at The Saybrook at Haddam, we couldn’t agree more!

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Turning a Worrisome Visit into Positive Change

December 29, 2017

Holidays bring families together, giving them an opportunity to share time baking, making, eating, drinking, reminiscing, laughing, and taking part in those wonderful traditions each family has. For relatives who live far away, the holidays are the best opportunity to really check in on the health and well-being of older family members.  In many cases, it is an eye-opener when people truly see how their elderly parents are really doing day-to-day.  At The Saybrook at Haddam, we receive an increase in requests for information during November, December and January from families who realize they need to address their parents’ changing care needs.

One of the first questions people ask us is, “How do we know when it is time for assisted living?” Although there is no “one-size-fits-all” answer since each family and individual is unique, there are general ways your parent will indicate things aren’t going well.  We thought Care.com had a good check list for families to watch for:

  • Is your parent sitting in the same place all day and seeming to be less mobile? When they move do they wince in pain?
  • Have they lost or gained a noticeable amount of weight?
  • Is there a stack of unpaid bills lying around the home or are they regularly buying or overspending on things they don’t need?
  • Do you notice frequent confusion or memory loss when they are talking – including forgetting names of family members or common household items?
  • Do you notice frequent changes in mood and personality?
  • Is there spoiled food in the fridge?
  • Are there any new dents in their car?

One or two of these signs may not be cause for immediate action, but they definitely tell you it’s time to put a care plan in place.  After the holidays, you can talk with siblings or others who may be involved in decision making, and discuss options.  This is the time when some families begin calling retirement, assisted living and memory care communities to check on services, arrange for tours, and determine which would be a good fit for loved ones.

Having the “time for assisted living” conversation with an elderly parent or relative is likely one of the hardest things an adult child will ever do.  Be sure to work closely with your preferred retirement community for advice on walking through this step in a kind, caring and respectful manner.  Many communities will invite you to enjoy lunch or dinner, to attend a concert or other event, or even to try a short-term or respite stay.  These simple steps take much of the fear and anxiety out of the decision-making and eases the transition from independent living in a home, condo or apartment, to retirement living in an assisted living or memory care environment.

Ideally, adult children will begin having these conversations while parents are able to make their own decisions. The more time and information everyone has, the more confident everyone will feel when the time comes to make the move.  They will feel most comfortable having you walk by their side through the selection and move-in process.  In this way, you can turn a very worrisome time of life into a wonderful and positive change.

Additionally, as difficult as assisted living planning may be, we can tell you that, in our experience, once residents are settled in to life at The Saybrook at Haddam, they often wonder why they waited so long!

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No Holiday Blues Allowed!

December 15, 2017

During December, nearly every moment seems to be filled with holiday music, Christmas cards, festive decorations, wishes of glad tidings, and general efforts to “spread good cheer.”  It’s a warm and wonderful time that we embrace and share with family and friends.  Some people, however, find themselves suffering from the “holiday blues.”  Anyone – including senior citizens – can feel a little sad around this time of year as they may be facing loneliness, loss of loved ones, financial burdens or other concerns.  Caregivers and family members should be on the lookout for “holiday blues” and take proactive steps to help seniors have a more enjoyable time of year.

Diane Carigliano, RN, director of The Saybrook at Haddam’s wellness team, hosted a special “Beat the Blues” holiday event for residents and families. The team talked about recognizing some of the physical and emotional signs of the blues – and celebrating ways to avoid them.  Here are a few of their suggestions:

Be realistic and enjoy new traditions and other holiday celebrations.  Some people dwell on past Christmases or the way things used to be.  We cannot always recreate what we loved in the past, so it is healthier to focus on what we have in front of us today. One easy way to do this is to write a list of things you appreciate about your life – and use that as a daily reminder of all that is good!

Look for ways to help others.  More than 11 million senior citizens engage in volunteerism each year which means there are millions of opportunities for seniors to get involved.  They can team with local churches, senior centers or libraries, the Boy Scouts or Girl Scouts, national homeless or hunger relief organizations, or community-based activities to find a project that fits their interest and availability.  By doing this, the true meaning of Christmas can come through and lift seniors’ spirits.

Take good care of your body.  Staying healthy is the best way to enjoy the holidays so eat well, don’t skip meals, drink plenty of water, reduce sugar and alcohol intake, exercise, and spend time outdoors (weather permitting). This is a great time to treat yourself to a massage or learn a relaxation technique such as meditation, yoga or Tai Chi. If you let healthy habits slip, you run a greater risk of illness and/or injury – which are guaranteed to put a damper on anyone’s holiday!

Practice forgiveness.  Sometimes people do or say things that hurt us – and we have a hard time looking past those wrongdoings.  However, holding on to bad feelings ends up hurting us and can affect our holidays.  Forgiving all sorts of people – from our past, our work, or our families – will definitely heal the spirit.

Do one little act of kindness every day.  Small things like holding the door open for a stranger, sharing a smile, running an errand for a friend, or calling a relative can improve everyone’s day.

Love, love, love.  When we embrace love, we have a much better outlook on life.  So, make an extra effort to love your family and friends, your home and environment, and even yourself for the best holiday season ever!

The holiday blues are no fun – but recognizing what they are will help you deal with them and send them packing.  Then you can relax and truly enjoy all the seasonal festivities as they are intended (just go easy on the egg nog!).

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Avoiding the Flu and Other Thoughts on Healthy Living

Avoiding the Flu and Other Thoughts on Healthy Living

November 15, 2017

To prepare residents for the upcoming “flu season,” The Saybrook at Haddam hosted a free flu shot clinic as well as an informational session (hosted with Encompass Home Health) earlier this month.  Here are some key pointers from these events that our wellness team would like to share to help seniors (and everyone, really!) avoid the flu and build a healthy immune system this winter: Continue reading “Avoiding the Flu and Other Thoughts on Healthy Living”

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Health Fair Comes to The Saybrook at Haddam August 19

August 16, 2017

As families well know, we each need a team of professionals to help meet our basic healthcare needs. From doctors to dentists to therapist, pharmacists, audiologists, and other specialists, we regularly visit a variety of healthcare experts throughout every stage of our lives.  As we reach retirement age, we may see medical conditions and treatment become somewhat more complex, requiring even keener involvement. Keeping track of it all can be confusing.  Continue reading “Health Fair Comes to The Saybrook at Haddam August 19”

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Pets and Seniors – What a Perfect Mix!

April 14, 2017

There are many things to smile about at The Saybrook at Haddam, but the biggest smiles always appear when a four-legged furry friend is around.  We have several pets who call The Saybrook at Haddam “home” and we have regular animal visitors who brighten our days on so many levels.  You may have taken a Tai Chi class with Shasta, the visiting German Shepard, or spent time with Higgins, the spotted terrier, when he stops by to say hello.  Or you may have seen several resident dog-owners such as Angelo walking his cocker spaniel, Abby, or Hans and Heidi with their hound mix, Annie, or Janet with her little black cutie, Callie.  You already may even have met Skippy, the golden retriever that belongs to Kay and Charlie, two new residents.  And over in the cat department, you perhaps have seen Phyllis’s cat, Francie, who was the star of a recent advertisement from The Saybrook at Haddam, or Harry’s cat, Missy, or Barbara’s biblical friends, Adam and Eve.  These adorable pets are an important part of our community and we love having them around. Continue reading “Pets and Seniors – What a Perfect Mix!”

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One More Look at Heart Health!

March 1, 2017

Heart Health Month – February – came and went quicker than we would have ever imagined! We hope you saw the heart health tips and information that we placed throughout The Saybrook at Haddam during this past month. This information focused on ways to maintain healthy blood pressure, cholesterol, glucose, and weight levels, along with tips to improve physical activity and best manage medications.  Continue reading “One More Look at Heart Health!”

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Going Red for Heart Health in February

February 15, 2017

Ah, the heart.  It is truly what makes us who we are – and what carries us through our lives (literally and figuratively).  Expectant parents jump for joy upon hearing that first tiny heartbeat in the womb. Many happy romances begin with the rapid beating of the heart. Major life decisions are often judged by listening to the heart (and, of course, the head!). Therefore, it makes sense that we must, in turn, love and care for our hearts. Continue reading “Going Red for Heart Health in February”

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Considering a Different Type of Snowbird This Winter

November 15, 2016

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As we rapidly speed through the colorful and brisk autumn months, many adults are faced with the task of ensuring their parents or elderly loved ones are prepared for the long winter ahead.  This can mean hiring a plow service, having groceries delivered, being sure there is plenty of home fuel on hand, and being sure someone is available to safely drive seniors to doctor’s appointments or to run errands.  Continue reading “Considering a Different Type of Snowbird This Winter”

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